Don't go without cumming!
Yep. You read that right.
Our lives are but a moment.
Are you all-in on pleasure?
Or are you holding back?
Welcome to The Pleasure Playground: Whole Body Communicator™️ Neurosomatic Intimacy coaching for people who are tired of keeping their most alive, vulnerable, delicious, complicated selves under wraps.
What if you die without ever getting to have the sex, love, and intimacy you actually want?
If soul shuddering, teeth chattering orgasms aren't a priority for you, you can close out this page right now.
If deep down you quietly ache to be shoved up against the wall and fingered till you squirt, you daydream at work about someone expertly sucking your toes till you squirm,
or you'd just about pay for someone to blindfold you, tape your mouth shut and lay flat on you not moving a muscle till your stress is squished...or something else entirely,
then you're in the right place, love.
We all have DESIRES we haven't said out loud.
We can spend years thinking they're just too weird, or waiting, hoping someday they'll just happen to us. Your relationships are really great and your job is really great and you wonder, is it really worth rocking the boat to start asking for things you're not sure anyone else is really into?
You've built a life that's "successful". You're reliable, driven, nobody can question your work ethic. You've gone after and gotten the life you wanted and yet something is missing. And when it comes to fully letting an orgasm rock your world, you don't let go. When you are ready to ask someone you love to go deeper with you, you clam up. And its driving you crazy to watch your life go by quietly yet steadily unsatiated. If you could just pay someone for the pleasure you want, that would have already worked. But somehow, it's just not that simple.
If you think you "don't know what you want" think again.
This is just something we're told when our freeze response leads to indecision, or our fawn response leaves us choosing what they want over our own truth.
Deep down, your inner compass has always been there, waiting to take you on the adventure of a lifetime. Your nervous system and your inner narrator just went on the fritz from trauma, or simply the layers of masking we put on day after day to survive. At some point we forgot how to even listen for our wildest desires, much less communicate them.
Does this sound like you?
What you need now is a recalibration to return to that ability you had when you were three years old to know exactly what you want, and the adult skills to say it to your lover(s).
You want the kind of intimacy where you can take off more than your clothes.
You want to feel understood and accepted, safe to express whether or not they want it too.
You want to be able to hear a no without turning it into a referendum on your worth. To say no without feeling like you've ruined somebody's day. To disagree without preparing for a war. To be honest without having to choose between betraying yourself and betraying someone you love.
You want to actually live it. Not just understand it intellectually. Not just fantasize about it. Not just talk about it with your therapist, your best friend, or the anonymoIf us strangers of the internet.
You want to be able to bring more of your real self into your real relationships.
That's what we're working on here.
Welcome to
The Pleasure Playground: Whole Body Communicator™️ Intimacy Coaching
Twelve weeks to get out of your head, get curious about what you actually want, and build the embodied skills to pursue it.
This is the space for the super specific sex questions you want able to ask your partner(s) but can't quite get out of your mouth.
The opening-up-the-relationship conversation you've been rehearsing in the shower for six months.
The shame spiral that kicks in when someone doesn't want what you want.
The argument about the dishes that somehow becomes a referendum on whether you're lovable.
The part of you that desperately wants to be seen, and the part that's absolutely convinced being seen is a terrible idea.
The desire you don't know how to name. The boundary you don't know how to hold. The truth you're afraid might change everything.
Bring it all.
The dark, the tender, the horny, the mundane, the embarrassing, the confusing, the is-this-even-a-thing-other-people-want? stuff.
It's all welcome here; Your deepest kink or your cheesiest recurring fight. Your jealousy, your crush, your libido mismatch, your fear of rejection, your inability to say what you need without apologizing seventeen times.
Nothing has to be sensational to matter. Nothing has to be conventional to belong.
And you don't have to fit yourself into somebody else's idea of what a healthy sex life or a successful relationship looks like.
This is about figuring out what you want—and building the capacity to meet it honestly, skillfully, and with care for yourself and the people involved.
Your body knows EXACTLY what you want
I’ve been working with people for many years. And the thing I noticed, over and over again, across disciplines, across spaces and modalities, is that everything we want to shift in our lives boils down to COMMUNICATION.
There are 3 facets of communication that open our path to actual change in our lives:
Communication with our BODIES, with our SELVES, and with OTHERS.
This is the Whole Body Communicator advantage. We're not just applying one skill and hoping it works. We're healing and playing with ALL of YOU.
Communication with Your Body
When you re-learn to listen to the cues of your body that we are so often taught to ignore, the truth of your desires becomes loud and clear. When your nervous system understands your desires to be safe, your body stops blocking you from taking the steps towards what you want.
Through powerful NeuroSomatic Intelligence drills and other somatic tools, we crystalize your yeses and no's and repattern a world of options.
Communication With Your Self
Is your inner narrator undermining? With mindset shifts, transformational language, and powerful parts work we’ll give your self talk a makeover.
This is all about understanding your own core beliefs and making changes that support your empowerment.
We use science-based methods that work for everyone from stressed out stay-at-home parents, to dysregulated lovers, to CEO's.
Guess what helps rewire limiting beliefs? Yep, nervous system tools!
Communication With Others
We also workshop your communication with others. By the time your nervous system is on board, your beliefs and self-talk are supportive, there's just one thing left. Oh yah, it takes two (or more) to tango in the bedroom, right? You can stick to self-pleasure if you want but chances are you wanna talk all this brilliant healing and get down and dirty. You'll learn Non-Violent Communication techniques, boundaries work, reflective listening, and authentic relating so that you can effectively ask for your needs and offer attuned presence for your partner or partners.
Everything that we want in our lives usually comes down to our ability to communicate with others about our wants, needs, thoughts, and feelings...
but years of challenging experiences can cut us off from our ability to have open, honest, productive communications inside our selves!
When it comes to love and sex, we need the most access to our own physical cues and flowing open dialogue. Yet this is the time when we most often shut down. Add a lingering conflict with a partner, unprocessed emotions, trauma responses and attachment wounds and this gets even more complicated.
In this focused work we have space to gently and effectively unwind the spaghetti of root causes that are holding you back and invite all of you to your rightful seat at the pleasure table.
The NeuroSomatic Edge
Not that kind of edging...unless you want hehee. Guess what? You are just like a computer. Mhmmm. You function in life with inputs and outputs. Your beautiful brain, 86 billion neurons, brain stem, spinal cord, 43 major pairs of nerves and trillions of nerve endings all scan for danger, react to past information and future predictions. They receive available context and control your available options in the here and now.
And just like a computer, you are programmable! This can be dark, think brainwashing. This can also be the biggest glimmer of hope! All the ways you feel stuck are totally unstuck-able because of this amazing capability called neuroplasticity. Your nervous system WANTS to adapt, WANTS to change. Isn't that just fantastic news? All we need to do is apply specific drills in a highly personalized way to help this happen in the most effective way towards your unique desires.
NeuroSomatic training gives us the exact tools and framework we need to help you release stress that is blocking your serendipity, rewire beliefs that are hindering your happiness and build safety around the sluttiness you crave.
Erum J.
"I can be an overanalyzer and intellectualizer, so somatic work helps me get out of my head and into my body. It helps me build trust and a new relationship of safety in my body so I can actually feel deeply."
Richard T.
"I came in feeling like I had lost my ability to regulate my emotions during a long and intense conflict with a former partner. The tools I'd learn in regular talk therapy had become ineffective on my overstimulated nervous system. Now I am able to implement somatic tools in the moment I am experiencing deregulation."
I'm Blaize Hall (they/them) — NeuroSomatic intimacy coach, writer of the Substack newsletter, Artist Of Everything, creator of the podcast The Somatic Raver, and founder of Weeping Willow Wellness.
My work lives at the intersection of nervous-system awareness, emotional healing, honest communication, and the wonderfully complicated process of being a human in relationship with other humans.
I was a secret slut for years...until I realized the shame and secrecy was something handed down to me for GENERATIONS.
I met God and they told me to cum more. Dead serious.
For real though, I fought cancer - in my twenties! And it made me realize we have no idea how long we get to experience life in these bodies. And I sure as shoot wasn't going to let my time slip by without asking for all the juicy things I want to experience, both in bed and out!
The best parts of life are with other people, whether that's creative, sexual, adventures or even the monotonous day-to-day responsibilities.
We all need a little help sometimes making the with-other-people part of that happen a little more smoothly.
I've always nerded out over human connection, words and communication. This passion led me to dive into training in NeuroSomatic Intelligence, Somatic Experiencing, Non-Violent Communication, Somatic Trauma Therapy, Somatic Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Intimacy Educator Training, Yoga, Reiki, Breathwork, EFT, DIR-Floortime method for kids with developmental differences, Crisis Counseling with Didi Hirsch, Theatrical healing with inmates at the Auburn State Penitentiary and more.
I value curiosity, personal agency, consent, compassion, and the freedom to define a life that feels like your own.
You don't have to impress me. You don't have to make your story tidy. You don't have to translate your experience into the right therapeutic vocabulary.
Bring the question you think is too weird. Bring the fight that sounds too small to matter. Bring the thing you have never said out loud.
Pleasure Playground?
Are you ready for your...
This experiential three month 1:1 somatic healing container is unlike any form of therapy or coaching you have seen before. If you're ready to unlock the connection you crave, book your application interview now.
In Pleasure Playground: Whole Body Communicator NeuroSomatic Intimacy, we will peel back the layers, all of them. We won't just talk genital anatomy and hope it works. We won't just learn conflict repair and leave it at that. We combine the practical skills, deep trauma resolution and nervous system expansion so you are ready to step into the closeness you're calling for.
When you deepen into a listening relationship with your body, and apply tangible practices with REAL results, you will be amazed how quickly things can change.
It doesn't have to be incredibly painful or scary as you get back in touch with your body.
It doesn’t have to take ten years in therapy dissecting your entire life.
That work may have it’s time and place.
THIS work will help you create practical shifts immediately.
What's Included
Pleasure Playground is a one-on-one experience that is customized to each client. Your experiences, your needs, and your body are wonderfully unique, so a one-size-fits all program can never produce the results a bespoke program can.
Each of my clients programs are different, and my medicine is to be fully present and attuned to you, so that I can design your Whole Body Communicator experience to your needs.
Book a call now to make a plan together.
No matter how long you’ve been blocked to the kind of toe-curling pleasure you want, you can have it!
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12 weeks of 1:1 coaching sessions and continuous support throughout your transformation.
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One 60-90 minute session on zoom per week.
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Connection on the Telegram App between sessions for any quick questions or sharing resources.
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Access to the full library of self-paced classes on the WBC Hub on Skool
Program Investment:
$4000 ($333/week)
Payment plans are available.
DT
“I’m making eye contact with my wife now! In just four weeks, I feel a sense of hope in our relationship. I can say no to other family members when I need to and I can be present when my loved ones need support instead of counting down the seconds until I can leave the room.”
Ben H.
“I’m more aware of my feelings and behaviors as they happen. It’s in real time! I don’t have to wait and think back hours later ‘Oh, I should have done this.’ I have the awareness now to go ‘Oh, I’m doing this thing I don’t need to be doing, and I can change it.’
Imagine your life 6 months from now...
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You tingle with excitement when you wake up in the morning because you know what kind of pleasure is possible.
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You feel peace, even when you know you need to have a hard conversation because you aren't afraid of discomfort.
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You have tried things you thought you'd only ever read about or watch on certain websites...
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Even on a hard day, you know exactly what practices will help get you through
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You tell your lover(s) your fantasies without shame.
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You live like pleasure is your birthright.
That conversation about opening up your marriage you were so afraid to have?
You had it gracefully and your relationship is clearer because of it.
That suppressed fantasy you always felt made you a "bad person"?
You made peace with the shame parts and understand what's at the root of your desire.
That kinky activity you thought nobody would be into?
You met someone who likes what you like, because you weren't afraid to share what you like!
The shame, guilt, panic, toxic stress you carried around for years?
It’s GONE. It no longer runs the show.
Your desires are a roadmap.
They point you towards your deepest healing.
They are the catalyst towards your truest self.
Your nervous system is ready to flow with you.
Your sex is ready to expand.
Your pleasure is already on its way.
This Is For You If...
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You're ready to DIVE IN to making real, lasting change in your life
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You're done being stuck, and you're open to trying new things in order to get new results
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You're excited to work in a consent-forward container, where you can say no and speak up when things don't feel right, AND you're willing to grow your comfort zone with my support.
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You're ready to invest in a high level, intimate growth program that will quantum leap who and how you're being in your life* you're ready for massive change, because believe me when I tell you, you're going to change as a result of this work!
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If you find yourself held back by the weight of expectation, fear of discomfort, or an over-reliance on logic, this journey is for you. It's normal to confront these feelings. Together we will face them and create a safe space to transmute your fear into power.
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You want more honest, satisfying intimacy—but you keep hitting the same internal or relational walls.
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You have desires, needs, feelings, or questions you've struggled to bring into your relationships.
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You understand some of your patterns but want help translating that awareness into different choices.
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You're willing to get curious, practice, experiment, and take responsibility for your part in the process.
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You want support that can hold both the tender, vulnerable stuff and the awkward, funny, messy, deeply human stuff.
This Is Not For You If...
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You are not ready to be challenged
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You are looking for an easy way out, an escape
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You are not open to examining your past patterns
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You are not ready to invest in this type of high impact 1:1 container.
Please Note: This program will challenge you to look deeply and intimately at your shadow, the parts of you that feel vulnerable, and sometimes to share trauma history as it comes up and feels safe to do so.
This program may challenge some fundamental beliefs that are not serving you.
You ALWAYS get to decide what to keep and what to discard, but please be willing to examine with me what may be holding you back.
This is a high value 1:1 program. If you are unable or unwilling to invest in yourself in this way right now please consider starting with the free mini course, access the WBC library on Skool with a monthly prescription, and stay tuned on the email list to join group workshops, binge The Somatic Raver podcast and more! There is so much access to resources all around you. Just start somewhere. I trust you completely to take the right steps for you.
(You can find a reading list on our Resources page.)
Take it deeper...
Whole Body Communicator is a one-on-one experience that is customized to each client. Your experiences, your needs, and your body are wonderfully unique, so a one-size-fits all program can never produce the results a bespoke program can.
Each of my clients programs are different, and my medicine is to be fully present and attuned to you, so that I can design your Whole Body Communicator experience to your needs.
Book a call now to talk about how Whole Body Communicator can help you.
No matter how long you’ve struggled to make the changes you KNOW you want to make in your life, I want you to know, it can happen NOW.
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12 weeks of 1:1 coaching sessions
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One 60-90 minute session on zoom per week
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Connection on the Telegram App between sessions for accountability, questions or sharing resources.
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BONUS: Access to the full library in the Whole Body Communicator Hub on Skool
Program Investment:
$4,000
Payment plans are available.
Ginger C.
“ Blaize is the perfect coach to help you find your confidence and your truth
or to guide you through a sticky situation.
I had a boundaries / friendship dilemma, and Blaize led me through an integration session where I felt so seen and heard. I am always amazed at the well-rounded wisdom I receive, and this time was no different: I entered the session spinning, full of confusing contradictory feelings, and I left with a plan for how to process and move through these feelings, and a sense of clarity and direction on what to do next in relation to the external situation. Thank you, Blaize!!”
F.A.Q.
Do You Offer Scholarships? I have several sliding scale spots at a scholarship rate, as I want this work to be accessible to those who are invested in what I have to offer. Sliding scale spots are offered case-by-case and dependent on availability. Please mention this in our strategy call if you are in need of financial support. I will also be launching a group coaching version of this program in 2025 which will be a smaller financial investment.
What does this program cost? The full 12-week investment is $4,000 USD, which is the cost for three months of exclusive 1:1 access to my decades of training through weekly calls and continued text support on Telegram.
Do you have payment plans? Yes! You can purchase the full program up front or pay monthly.
How do I know it's going to work? You get what you give. In coaching, you're the one who makes it work. I have never had anyone walk away without results. And that's because I don't work with just anyone who comes along. I work with people who are in growth mindset, or at least willing to learn how to move into growth mindset, who are dedicated to their own healing and willing to move to the edge of their comfort zone to embrace change. In short, it's going to work because YOU decide it is. I trust the skills I have acquired and the space I hold. I trust our neuroplasticity and flexible nervous systems. I trust YOU to show up and do the work. So, it's going to work.
What if you can't handle my trauma? I'm by no means pretending to be a magical trauma fairy who can cast a spell on you and fix everything. (I mean, maybe sometimes hehee, try a Reiki session!). In all seriousness, I have spent most of my life supporting trauma, and most of my adulthood dedicated to deepening my trauma-informed training. That said, if I see signs of a potential crisis, or an issue that needs support beyond the scope of my training and our weekly meetings, I will absolutely tell you that and help you find resources. Coaching is NOT a replacement for substance detox programs, psychiatric services, or day-to-day support for on-going safety issues or current mental health crises. And it can be a great part of your healing plan. If you need help RIGHT NOW, please call 988.
What if I’m nervous about diving into difficult feelings? This is normal. Together, we’ll create a compassionate space where you can explore at your own pace. You’re not alone on this journey.
© Weeping Willow Wellness, 2024